My vote is the same as Ginger's. Don't push, don't stall. (But if you wanted to ask your attorney to have a conflict on the first available court date? I don't think that'd be a bad tactic.) Assuming you stick to the DB rules, I think time is your friend when your spouse's heart needs convincing.
Me 35, H 33 T 10, M 7 D 2 EA confirmed 12/22/2014 H moved out 2/1/2016 Returned 3/18/2016, H gave back my wedding ring 8/3/2016 H became distant 10/24/2016 H Moved out Filed 3/17/2017
