Ginger1: I agree 100% that I would not and don't want to go back to same marriage as we had before. With that said, things are already in the works for that not to happen: I.e. - me working on myself to become a better man, father and hopefully husband. She would obliviously need to work on herself as well.

So, if I understand you, your vote would be to stall out and buy some more time?

Others?

Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17