I read everywhere that time is your friend on saving your marriage. Our divorce is in the works and have a few months to go I would assume. She hasn't mentioned the divorce in a couple of weeks. She did make a comment a few weeks back that she wanted to potentially delay it so our son could stay in his house through the summer and have his friends over and swim in the pool, etc...
With that said I have two options:
1. Advise my attorney to slow play the divorce to buy time to continue to DB and see what happens. This info would be Top Secret and my wife, nor her attorney would be none the wiser. I would still keep my wife thinking that things are progressing along as normal. I am the petitioner and can play the cards how I want.
2. Tell my wife absolutely not and keep moving with divorce to "force her hand" into making a decision.
People say that when the For Sale sign shows up in the front yard it gets real for them and sometimes that is a breaking point. This is also a risky move.
Thoughts?
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17
