Yeah, I was being sacarstic when I was saying these things last night. Obvoiusly I wouldnt do that and jeapordize all of the hard work Ive put in thus far. But on the other hand it is nice to have feelings like this every once in a while that you know you are going to be ok whatever happens.

She has been very nice to me lately. Nothing extradinary but certainly better than before. Like many have said here, it probably will not be a sudden act where she calls and says lets work on the marriage but rather a lot of small things along the way (temp. checking).

The hardest part of all of this is putting your pride and ego aside. Do others agree with this?


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17