Welcome to this corner of the world. I like what you said about there being hope on the other side. Trust me, there is! Having been on this side for about 2 1/2 years now, I know for a fact there is hope.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids