I read your posts yesterday about FF and I didn't respond immediately because I really wanted to think about what I said. First and foremost, I'm SO sorry. Regardless of how long the relationship is, it just plain hurts to feel like you aren't good enough. But, the thing is you ARE good enough. FF is the one who isn't good enough. I know it doesn't seem that way right now since the hurt is so new and so fresh, but I hope, in time, you come to see who you are and what all you have to offer. The RIGHT guy will see all of that and appreciate it.
I have said to you before that I think you and I are very similar and that we approach things the same way, so I do totally understand how you are saying you feel because I would feel the very same way if I were in your shoes.
Hang in there, Ginger. You are a wonderful person and in time, a nice man will appreciate that and hopefully YOU will learn to appreciate it too.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids