Also, the frequent contact? Gah!! So incredibly confusing! I agree that it does feel like our H's are "stringing us along" and it messes with our heads at an incredible level. Your posts make me think I'd really enjoy hanging out with you. (we'd bring Cadence and a lot of other DB friends along when we start to spiral.) After reading through a few replies in your thread, I've changed my thought process (at least for this moment) from he's "stringing me along" to "I'm just that awesome of a person. Why wouldn't he be intrigued by me?" One of my co-workers, whom I adore, had a wonderful sense of humor. It wasn't uncommon to hear him say: "Aren't I great? I'm amazing myself all the time!" I think all of us DBers should walk around saying it!
Me 35, H 33 T 10, M 7 D 2 EA confirmed 12/22/2014 H moved out 2/1/2016 Returned 3/18/2016, H gave back my wedding ring 8/3/2016 H became distant 10/24/2016 H Moved out Filed 3/17/2017