Dealing with Devastation

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I agree with what you're doing, giftd. And it is very, very hard. Just give her time to figure things out and miss you. Remember that relationships are like see-saws. If one is doing all the wanting and pursuing and missing, the other won't be doing those things. Find happiness in other things for a while. Pursue the people that are your biggest fans and supporters, and keep posting here. We are listening. I don't always respond, but I am reading and thinking about what to say to you all the time. I'm like you, though -- trying to figure all of this stuff out. I suggest MWD's Last Resort Technique video series and the Divorce Busting coaches. I've found these very helpful, along with Divorce Remedy, of course. I think you are doing a good job with all of this. It might be up to her now to figure herself out and work on herself. You just keep on working on and worrying about yourself.