Is there anyone on this forum who has used these techniques and actually succeeded in saving their marriage?
I did. I 180'd, GAL'd, detached, and moved on like a pro. That's what brought her back. I got back in great shape, dressed better, was going out all the time. She wanted me to go back to the crying broken mess I was when I first found out she was cheating. They sure do love to have that kind of control over you.
Anyway, I detached so much I woke up one day and said screw this, I don't want a cheater for a spouse. I filed for D. That snapped her out of it big time. I went from pursuer to pursued. The whole script got flipped. We got back together and worked on it for 2+ years. Guess what though? I really did detach. This program told me to detach, GAL, and move on and I did. I decided I'm better than having a cheating spouse even if they're no longer cheating. This method helped me find my self respect. Now I'm the one divorcing her and moving on and I couldn't be more excited about my future. I wish her well but to me life is way too short to tolerate a cheater in my life.
