Here's a news flash. You enable her behavior. That's the role you are playing.

You will no longer be enabling her when you choose to have some boundaries. This isn't all on her. Look in the mirror buddy.

You have choices in this that will influence the direction of your sitch. It begins with you. Either you choose to lead or continue to follow her lead.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa