I need to add a couple of positives to my list for this week Monday, 4/26, H invited me to go for a walk, and initiated ML, and WANTED to, (even though he was kind of moody) Tuesday, 4/27, -- no less than 5 people mentioned to me how great I looked after staff meeting, nice ego boost if nothing else (of course H was not one of them, but I'm guessing he must have noticed); H worked until 8 pm...called just about 8 to tell me he was going to be a little late getting home because he "didnt want me wondering"...said he was going "card shopping" (for our ann. & mothers day)....this was a first...I told him thanks for calling, that it was considerate and I appreciated, and that supper and a big hug were waiting for him, I joked "I'm sure that last one made your day", and he said, "well, it does help after a long day". He got home about 40 minutes later than usual, and obviously had cards in a sack, so I guess at least I will be getting some cards! It occured to me that it's big that he called....it does relieve my anxiousness. I took it as a sign that he really is making an effort to work on our R. He didn't have to call, it was entirely voluntary, and he could have taken advantage of the situation to really put me to the test and drive me up the wall. Of course the crazymaker had to mention that he's called from OW's house before, but he was carrying the cards when he came in....
