Help - Setting Boundaries, WW in EA - Thread #4

[Woke_Up]

So, after a pretty good weekend, most things going OK, positive interactions, and even ML on Saturday morning, today, just before bed, we had a rage fest.

W said house prices were dropping, so I said we should sell the place fast. Then ensued a massive argument about taking the kids' home away, she wanted all the money, I had a good job she had nothing.

Threatened to stay in the house, threatened to get me out. Threatened to go to America with the kids. Threatened to marry OM and get pregnant so the courts would come down in her favour, when I said she couldn't legally take my daughter out of the country without my permission.

Threatened that I won't get joint custody.

Said I was selfish and using my kids, when I said I needed to be able to make sure I could provide a stable home for them, and I would need some money for a deposit.

She doesn't want a mediocre life, apparently. I said she was just being entitled, and that unfortunately when people split up, that everyone ends up worse off.

On my side, I told her that OM is not to come near my kids, and if he comes to England, blood will be spilled. Bearing in mind this guy has previously threatened to beat me up and actually kill me...

Told her I would seek a clause of not introducing new partners into the custody arrangements. Probably should have kept my powder dry on that one.

So she wants me out of the house (says she will find a way to afford it), or wants all of the money from the house, doesn't want me to have joint custody, wants to take my kids away if I don't play ball.

At the moment, I don't even want this woman near me.