Oh heck guys, I need your support...I'm all over the place.

A text this evening...about half an hour ago.

First contact since November (or there abouts).

Basic jist is that he says that he thinks I'll agree that our marriage has broken down irretrievably, and as a result if would be wise for us to start divorce proceedings.

Scots law: after one year of separation we can apply for divorce provided both parties agree and there are no children under 16.

Need to sort out financial matters, but should not be too difficult.

Sends me a links as to where to find more information.

Asks if I'm in agreement and he'll get things started.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017