You'll find that no matter what you do, you'll have setbacks. It's because you're in a no-win game. The only way out is to stop playing the game. Go out and GAL and start creating a good life for yourself.
No truer words have been spoken on here...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.