What should I be doing now (Time to Move on?)

[Coconut]

hey doodler, it's good to see you still got jokes... you still tinkering around the house? did those columns in the front ever get painted?

so I came back to post because I was reading through another thread, and the person had put a lot of emphasis on the fact that it was the one year anniversary of BD in his sitch..

I then had to look at my signature to see my date.. it made me realize how far i've really come, it's not a significant event in my life... sure it's essentially when my M ended, but the BD itself is not significant enough to me to remember the date. There was a time when I would have used that date to text her and try and make her feel guilty about what she's done, when I hurt so I wanted her to hurt.. Man I've come a long way...