Sellout, Thanks for being so transparent and sharing your seemingly positive/hopeful experiences. To all who've replied, I appreciate your honesty in reading into those experiences.
I'd admit to trying to read into every positive interaction I've had with my H...clearly it's a habit I/we should stop.
I think the biggest challenge I struggle with (maybe many of us do) is finding a balance between the possibility of hope in our MR or ignoring it and continuing down the path to prepare for a legal divorce. The legal actions involved in a divorce often bring more hurt and bitterness to both parties and seem to contradict the ideas to support R.


Me 35, H 33
T 10, M 7
D 2
EA confirmed 12/22/2014
H moved out 2/1/2016
Returned 3/18/2016, H gave back my wedding ring 8/3/2016
H became distant 10/24/2016
H Moved out Filed 3/17/2017