On way to DB Victory?

[sellout]

Thanks for all of the great responses. Yes, I am trying to do a better job of not analyzing each and every thing that comes out of her mouth and what she is doing. When your entire world is shaken up by a catastrophic event like this, its hard not to think of every scenario, angle, etc.

Specifics about my GAL - gym (have lost 35 lbs and not starting to pack on some muscle. Have reconnected with some old friends, journaling, reading, become much more spiritual, therapy, group divorce recovery meetings, become more involved with son.

If I am understanding everyone correctly, the moral of the story is that I need to NOT worry about what she says and does. I get it.

Thanks.