yeah, you're right dfb, just telling/asking sometimes is helpful, I would do better to concentrate on that. H really is off the wall, I think some of it is testing behavior as well....do I REALLY love him enough to forgive him and go on after all he's done, or will I turn on him in the long run....
then that's kind of scary, because he did tell me a month ago he hadnt told me about not seeing OW (1 of several reasons) because he thought if he did I would just go back to the "old ways"....so it scares the bejeebers out of me if he really sees things that way.... I havent quit on the sex because I'm selfish. I like it. but it also is a good connection for us. oh well..... what is the name of your thread, dfb?
