That's all heavy man and I wish you luck. It's tough seeing them suffer and wanting to just say just take a freaking time out already.
I've told my W a handful of times (and am done doing so) that why can't we just be, just breathe, no decisions, etc. They have it in their mind that ending it is the ONLY option to heal. To me, there's just more to it, but that's the life of a LBS.
Hang in there.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
