Originally Posted By: leahsue
I will acknowledge that his feelings for me are not what they used to be, rather than holding onto the belief that they in fact are still there, just hidden for a time. They are gone. He has done nothing but be honest about not giving me false hope, and yet I have held on to hope in spite of that. I have to accept that this has really happened.

Leahsue,

This ^^^^^ is so plainly honest and painful and a truth we all know. We all want the light bulb to go off, the "a-ha" moment, but it just does not work like that sadly.

I wish you well in your reset of things. It happens and we all slip and fall, but it's about how we pickup the pieces and move forward that's important. We're all here to help.

Hope you have a good day.


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17