On way to DB Victory?

[resolut]

Yes I just want to confirm similar behavior patterns. My W is so deep into her A right now but when the topic somehow comes up that I would be with another woman or date after the D there's a drastic change in her.

I will easily admit that I am not fully detached from my W yet. Its difficult to do when you are living in the the same house. If she fixes me an egg for breakfast I have remind myself this is the same woman that is about to walk out the door to see the OM. The only things that will start to make me believe she is changing is if I can see true remorse in her actions and there begins to be some pursuit of me.

I believe the small acts of kindness she shows now are just the leftovers of 25 years of companionship and feelings of familiarity in how she treated me throughout the M. You have to be careful to separate those things out.