Yesterday I spent the day running errands and hanging out. W and SD went to one of W's friends house for the day.
Last night as I was winding down for bed, W came home and walked into my room.
She again ripped me into me about how I did this to our family. That her girlfriend's house is the same model of house we were going to buy. She said she's so mad at me.
Then she starts to bawl. She's crying because she doesnt know how to let our 6 year relationship go. She said this is her longest relationship and she doesnt know how to let go of it. She even told me it was easier for me because I've been through a divorce before. I just listened and validated by nodding my head. After she was finished venting, she told me she now felt bad because she's been going off on me lately and I've stayed cool and calm and haven't engaged in a tit for tat.