Thanks everyone for the encouragement. Again I just have to say this is all so hard to take after you trust someone for 25 years. When I got the ILYBINILWY speech a couple of months ago, she was the one talking about divorce and I was just devastated and surprised since it was so out of the blue. Its so hard to comprehend that now that I'm at the point of being ready to divorce, she goes silent and avoids the whole thing. I'm going to wait until Friday.

In the meantime, I'll catch up on everyone else's threads. smile


Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs
4 children
ILYBNILWY 1/30/17
PA confronted 3/6/17
Separated same house