I was in your shoes once many moons ago, unfortunately i hate to break it to you those actions by her doesnt mean much. Mine went all out to buy me gifts and stuff when she was out of town even when we had been separated for months. Any chance she gets she wants to chit chat and talk (mostly about her life). The weirdest one was before we separated she wanted to have a quick peck or kiss before work. It didnt mean she was interested to get back together.

You've been friendzoned. It may lead to more or it may not. I'd say dont get too excited and just do you. Focus on what you want to do, what if you were not married or tied down. What ambitions or activities do you want to do etc.

In others words stop analysing everything she does. It lets her knows you are still into her.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.