Well, hmmm... She went to bed in the guest room again tonight. That's four of the last five nights, though the night of the "NC commitment" she slept in same bed. So, SHE is the one doing the distancing. How the heck am I supposed to distance when she is already distancing in the house/sleeping arrangements about as much as possible. Guess I just play it cool? Act like I don't notice? Detach and go about my business?
So, how's your plan coming along?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
