On way to DB Victory?

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As most of you are aware of my current situation, I will spare the details. Please see previous thread for more.

As I have continued my successful GAL, 180 and Detachment journey, I feel that this weekend I saw possibly the first signs that it may be working for a possible DB one day.

A few examples below of things that happened over the weekend.

1. While we were sitting together at son's baseball game, my wife took interest for the first time in a long time in my Saturday evening plans. The plans had nothing to do with her but she asked twice what I was doing and who it was with.

2. She took notice and mentioned my new shirt, asking "where did you get that", in a sarcastic tone.

3. She made a joke about something that is a running joke with the both of us. We both laughed.

4. When dropping off my son so I could go out for my plans, she ask "do you plan on changing your outfit before you go because that doesn't look good and girls won't be attracted to that". I told her yes, I am changing. I know this sounds negative, but why would she care what I wear?

5. Today, she called me to talk about some things and asked me how my event was that I went to. I was brief and told her that I had a great time.

6. We were talking about some other things and then she said to me "well, if you were not so busy going to the gym, going to events and out buying clothes...then you would understand. Again, sounds potentially negative, but why does she care?!?!

7. She texted me a pic of our son for no reason and completely out of the blue. I didn't respond.

There are a few other minor things that I can't recall right now. Not looking for comments that I need to stop mind reading or stop caring, etc. and to focus on myself. I am focused on myself as you can see from the beginning of the post. Obviously she is beginning to notice...

Thoughts, comments, next steps?