Well, that (no contact) didn't last long. She drove by the OM's fave hangout today (dead end, mostly abandoned strip mall, no other reason to go there) but didn't go in. Wondered why we she was going out, checked family locator on cell phone plan. Sounds from many stories here as if this is not uncommon. How long do you let contact attempts (or actual contact) to continue before lowering the boom. Assuming she didn't call or dm the guy in advance and just drive by to see if he qas there (why else drive through parking lot?) Seems like withdrawal pains...


H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18

"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7

"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3