Hey Deb - I'm with Bill, detach yourself from the MIL/vows sitch
You are doing well with the mystery, get a life, let him chase routine though. Just remember the tough lady, Patience.
Quote: interesting thought hit me as I left the house this AM though, maybe it was from the "naked hug" or just a good weekend, but I remember thinking to myself that "I feel good enough right now that I don't give a hoot about OW"....of course that could crash any time, but to even have fleeting moments of such thoughts seems positive.
Sounds like you are tasting the heady intoxication of DETACHING These moments will come more frequently, and then you will be loving, but detached, from H's dramas. Bliss.
Saying a prayer for you at the staff meeting. Must be a week for these things, Mal just finished presenting to her team too. Big hugs, Slowly
