Not that I'm an expert, but I second everything 25yrsmlc said.

My anniversary and wife's birthday are in May, too, and I'm not getting her squat. I'll send a card to my MIL, though.

I have to say, I think your detailed plan for GAL is great. Keep it up!

M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17