Hey just to point some things out...he will eventually learn that,

Most single working people can't just take last minute trips. Thats some weird fantasy.

There is no guarantee that any partner he ends up settling down with will be able to have children. There is no guarantee that he will be able to have children.

Unplanned and uncontrolled events happen in life. So if you meet someone you are compatible with that's more important.

You will be fine ginger. You just need to find someone on your emotional intelligence level. He wasn't there.

Personally, I would love to have the opportunity have more children (even if not my own) in my life. And I'm sure there are guys out there that feel the same.

You have a lot to look forward to.

Let's go to some single events together this summer!


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015