well (IMHO) if you dont want to get caught pressuring, when you didnt, you either have to lay it on the line with H or with MIL. If you are uncomfortable doing it, how about you dial the phone, say to MIL "Here's H - he says he doesnt know anything about you 2 and the vows for sat" and hand him the phone.
Disconnect yourself from the sitch.
Let the 2 of them work it out, but make it clear it is the 2 of them working it out, not you.
Bill.
"you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant
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