The atomic MIL is at her best, and I need help thinking what to do....IL's 50th ann. celebration is Saturday... they are renewing their vows. She called Sat. night and told me she had it worked out for us to do the same thing with them....I said I don't know, have you talked to H? You need to, It's ok w/me but you need to talk to H...gave the phone to him, I heard him say "that will work" ...While H was out walking Sunday am, I called MIL and asked if she told/asked H about it, she said "well sort of, I told him I wanted you guys to walk down the aisle with us and then the priest will tell us what to do"....so, no, she didn't say anything about her plot to H. At lunch, I thought I'd feel him out, and said "your mom said something about us walking down the aisle with them Saturday" and H said, yes, she mentioned it to me"....
When I told MIL again she needed to talk to H, she said, "well, you don't know anything about it and neither do I, it's just what Father tells us to do" and "it will do him good"...
Now I really feel between a rock and a hard place, what do I do? play dumb? or say something to H? I'm afraid he'll think I'm helping MIL set him up if I don't say anything...I dont' know what to do... H actually said he would dance w/me, which I love and he hates, so I've been looking foward to that....but what the heck do I do about the atomic MIL's plot? I know she mentioned us renewing vows w/them back in January to H, she told me she had, but I sure don't know what to do. Anythoughts would be so helpful!
