I think you did a great job on listening and shifting through his words. See...I told you that you could do it. He's not the happy camper that you thought he was. He's still confused and is confining himself to only work and a few friends. That doesn't sound like a happy person to me...but a depressed one.
Keep up the good work and when you feel anxious...stop, sit down and breathe. You are right where you need to be at this time. Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
