God does for us what we cannot do for ourselves

[25yearsmlc]

Juju

If you are in America you can usually require a drug test for the other parent to exercise visitation.

I have a childhood friend with drug problems. As far as I know, she lacked a criminal record, but somehow her ex h made it a requirement for both of them to take drug tests in order to see their son unsupervised. She refused.

She did not see her son for 10 years...

So even without dragging in the cops, I would think this information given to your lawyer (the unexplained ATM withdrawals in weird areas and his behavior and sleep patterns, and more, etc) would greatly assist you in protecting your son.

So that's one big thing you may be able to shelve. Also, i'm 57 and realizing that at some point in the past, my h wasn't really in our m.

I do understand wondering about ourselves, our Identities, and the self doubt.

More later...