Coly, thanks for this update. I think you collected a lot of information and need to process it. Your H sounds miserable-- they still trust us to tell us who they see/don't see, their present lives (having "escaped"). I too, as of late was hearing about H's fights with this person or that, his mother is mad at him, etc. Keep up the good work, Coly, focus on you and D16. hugs
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me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016