RE the memory thing. Yes, it is a MLC thing. It can get really bad when they are in the depths of it, but it does get better as time goes by. So with their memory being like swiss cheese, it is prudent NOT to rely on them. I know she left both girls to you, but I make swaps pretty much every other day and I learned to NOT rely on her for ANYTHING so I was always prepared to handle any and every contingency. I still am, but luckily the memory thing improved heaps. I still rely on me only and do not trust her.
