Hi Ghost , just my humble opinion but I think you confuse acceptance with being over it. Time will eventually give you acceptance but you may never get over it completely , that's a choice you have to make. In your last post there was reasonably good news, a new friend , house offer accepted and things moving forward. Did you ever read the books ? Do your share around the house obviously but don't over do it. Time with your kids is priceless so do as much of that a you can.
Expecting your W to want to watch tele with or things like that are not going to happen. Imagine the worst pupil you've had and you couldn't wait for them to get out of the car, that's how your W feels about you , that's hard to accept after all these years but right now it's true. Accept that and then treat W with respect but indifference. She's made herself clear and if she every changes her mind it will be down the road and right now you are the cause of all her problems and unhappiness. We now your not but that's how she feels.
G, we all get how you feel but you have choices in this , maybe not the ones you would like but you can help.yourself get through it quicker by not dwelling on the past or what might have been. You have a life to live and only you can choose to live it.
Protect yourself financially because this isn't the woman you married, be fair to her and yourself.
