I guess I was hopeing that time would be a healer and that yes perhaps a separation but not a divorce would have been an option however for me to be able to purchase the new house I would need to have a financial agreement in place

I suppose another question is do I get the financials sorted before the divorce as a matter of safety

Thank you

Ghost

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.