This morning I asked my wife if she could set aside some time this week to start talking about our D. Setting up a timeline, finding a mediator, etc. I was doing this so as to be respectful and not catch her off guard. Her response was "You're in a hurry."
I was floored but then recovered enough to realize that was the response of a cake eater.
I guess my question is when we do have the conversation do I confront that atitude. After all, I am giving her what she wants, a D. Or, do I just keep going with the DB'ing and ignore whatever attitude she gives me? My guess is I shouldn't even try to confront her attitude since it would be a waste of time. She needs to be broken by realizing the fact her A is about to be exposed and she's about to lose everything.
Am I on the right track. Help.
Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs 4 children ILYBNILWY 1/30/17 PA confronted 3/6/17 Separated same house