Just a note on the 'am I enough for...' - probably you have already dug into some of the Brene Brown work? She very much looks at this area and I have found her work really helpful.
It is a work in progress for me, but I am realising the only person I need to be enough for is me. If things don't work out with another person, that doesn't realise I 'wasn't enough' for them - maybe the mix just wasn't right, or they had stuff going on - or whatever.
But I do think feeling 'enough' yourself - without another person's validation - is so important. Then, we are in a good place to start a healthy relationship....
Sounds like you are making good progress towards that. With the guy you have a crush on, I would say be light and friendly - and open to coffee etc?? Is he in a good situation personally?
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
