too true OwnIt. I suppose we also have the benefit of knowing that not only did we become the best persons we can be, but we also gave our relationships our best shot. Thats something i need - knowing i gave it my all with nothing more i could do
Incidentally some reconciliations can take several years and the importance to move forward i want to believe makes things somewhat more digestible. I'm still rooting for ya
BD Oct 2016 Me 47, W 43 together 25 years S 25, D 22