You'll find some evidence of success if you read through the link on that topic or read some of the older posters' threads. But, what you will find more than that is people who defused very tense situations and gave themselves time to think and heal, people who gave up waiting even though the WAS or WS was still coming around, or people who are much happier in the divorce than they probably would have otherwise. Once you've been around here a bit you realize that divorce busting is more about improving your own life and helping you move on from the pain. If those things cause your spouse to wake up great, but either way you still win. If you find a better recipe for success, come back and let everyone here know.
