Well here I am looking forwards

[ATPeace]

Well I thought I would,check in as it has been a while

Things still have not moved very far for me and I just want to check out a couple of things.

So still living in the same house things are really starting to get strained between us every thing that I do is wrong or not good enough not as much as she would do yet I feel I am trying my best and getting absolutely zero recognition ...it is not even the recognition it is the fact that if I look after the children then I get what housework have you done if I do the housework and then I get what have you done with the children

All I get is criticised some would say if she is still doing this then a part of her still cares as she is sitill engaging with me all be it with bitterness.


So I am scared to move myself forward she has started the ball rolling,by seeing a solicitor and she has asked me to submit to them my financial information

I feel I deserve to be treated better than she is treating me even as two people sharing the same house I would spend some time with the other human being in the house.....even watching tv like we used to would be nice I am not asking To sleep with her she just does not give me anything.

So how do people get to the point of wanting out of this,...I still love her we were together for 27 years I really struggle to let her go it sounds totally controlling I just do not want to be on my own even on my own with two of our children,

I do not know how to get to the point of letting her go and know I will be ok

Any advice

Thank you
Ghost