I have a question in regards in being secretive to where I am going to GAL. My W whenever she leaves tell me where she is heading. And if ahe deviates from the plan or running late will call and let me know. So when she asks where I'm heading I try to be very vague. But when she continues to push, I kind of feel that the right thing to do is tell her. Because I don't want her to start acting secretive again based on my actions. So how should handle this situation?
Also I notice that whem I make plans my W tends to have a way of interrupting them or somehow cutting them short. For example this morning, I went to yoga downtown and afterwards did some running. Afterwards I planned to go to the library and finish up the DR book. But during the middle of the run my W called wondering if I was almost finished. So asked her if there was something that she needed. W said that she needed some stuff from Lowe's. She lost her card early in the week, so I have been having to pay for purchases. So I told I would return to the house after my run. Now I could have told her that I would go with her much later after the library. But I'm trying not to be neglectful and appear to put other things ahead of her needs. But I am wondering if I should just make her wait and make her working with my timetable?
