trying to keep up with you

[Altair]

Bttrfly,
Thank you for this. My brain is so fried I don't recall if I've ever commented on your sitch. But I have been reading it, for sure. Quote of the day:
"So unnecessary when you both clearly love each other."
This. As you know, H needs to D to get to some other place, and finds this necessary to do. Papers came. I have been served. I told ...I guess i need to use STBXH.... that they came and he said he was sorry and he loved me and sorry it came to this.
Which leads us back to what you were saying bttrfly. Should be an interesting month- IC going on vacation for an entire month (must be nice, need to get that job lol) so it'll be some deep internal work, I think. I need to digest the last year of my life. Wishing you all well. I, as I have said and have seen written often, don't post too much on other's sitches because I'm feeling frozen these days. But there's been a few inspiring posts lately from people much farther along on the journey, these do keep me going.