I was just reading through work emails from H....I was struck by how warm and friendly but kind of "testing" they are....not hot like I'm sure he sends to OW, but the kind that come from a shared lifetime. I don't know if it makes me happy or sad, touched I guess...but I think I should understand from them that he certainly hasn't checked out of our M/R....it was on 3/16 that he asked me to take S to religous ed classes for rest of year...I hope the "not seeing each other" is holding but have no way to know....guess that a "listen with my eyes" situation......