Coly,

If he fires off a bunch of questions, be selective in answering them. You don't have to tell him everything, i.e., by a bit mysterious. Share just a wee bit and leave the rest for him to puzzle over when he's not around the you.

Smile, nod when he's speaking and really listen to what he says. If he opens up, he may very well tell on himself, as to what he's doing/thinking. You have to sift through his words to find the meaning. Also, watch his body language.

You can do this. Think of him as your next door neighbor and you'll be just fine.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.