That is a tough to hear... However, I would still have to agree with Vapo and Kaizen. No need to bring it up to the W cause it will only lead to an argument. How did you respond to D's question or did W jump in and answer?
W didn't say a damn thing. I told D that mommy wasn't feeling well, which was the excuse. They were supposed to go to Dollywood last weekend. W told D last thursday night on the phone at bedtime they were going to do that. I bought them both season passes so they could spend time like that, even make sure they didn't have to pay for parking. They didn't go, W's excuse was that MIL didn't want to go, as if that should matter.
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I know summer is right around the corner, but maybe start a calendar of the days you have D, what you cook for her, what you buy for her, events you attend, that day you took off of work to be with her, etc, etc. It may help you legally in getting joint custody.
I''m not worried about joint custody at this point. L tells me this is a slam dunk. I just want her to step up and do her part in taking care of our kid. She's making promises and not keeping them. D doesn't deserve this.
