Don't dump on her. You are very fast to point the finger. I know you would like to yell at her to take away from your pain, but it's a dead end.
Try not to escalate matters. Your hissy display (twice) accomplished nothing and only pissed her off and it sure as hell did not make you feel any better (in fact, you will probably reheat this episode several times in your head tonight and in the next couple of days).
Regarding the summer you know my position. PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR POSITION WITH THE D AND DO NOT LET HER SCREW YOU OVER. SHE IS YOUR DAUGHTER AS WELL AND SHE DESERVES 50% YOU AND 50% HER.
