YEAH, you're absolutely right, dfb, I gotta go and hold my head high and walk tall....hmmmmm....something sexy, I don't know, I'll have to figure something out to wear quickly, but you're right, I should look at it as a chance to show her up, and not be so upset about it. I know what you mean about "because she can", although it is confusing to me, because this gal is not a "looker" in any sense of the word that I can see, which leads me to believe her charms must lie elsewhere, which is not a pleasant thought. I honestly believe that H's main appeal to her is what she sees as status and money, although we are certainly far from affluent in my opinion. S has told me of being with her D when his dad would take him to visit, and of her D flipping through her photo albums of herself (the D) with guys her mom was dating, and the little girl saying "he couldn't provide, so mom broke up with him", "he couldnt get enough money, so mom moved", "he didn't make enough money and so mom had a big fight with him and they broke up" and on and on....made me really sad for a lot of reasons. Poor S wanted to tell his dad all about this, I had to tell him not to, that his dad would not believe it and would just be upset with him...S really thinks his dad's been taken for a ride.
I don't know, I keep hoping things are getting back to normal, and that the calmer approach to me/"things" in general, increased interest in home/kids/family/pets and decrease in "primping" is an indicator of that.
what is the title of your thread, dfb? I know I've "seen you around".
